What Pattern Mixing Taught Me About Personal Style

What Pattern Mixing Taught Me About Personal Style

There was a time when I played it safe—neutrals only, one pattern at a time, everything coordinated but a little... flat. Sound familiar?

Over the years—through styling fashion, working in retail design, and creating art—I’ve learned that the magic isn’t in playing it safe. It’s in the mix.

Mixing patterns has taught me so much more than how to style a wall—it’s helped me embrace my own voice, loosen the rules, and trust my instincts. And it’s a mindset I bring into everything, from what I wear to how I decorate to the products I create.

Today, I’m sharing five lessons I’ve learned through pattern mixing—and how you can use them to express your personal style.

1. Pick a Common Thread

Whether it’s a shared color, a theme, or a mood—connection creates cohesion. It gives your mix a sense of purpose without feeling forced.

Try this: Combine florals and geometrics that share the same background tone or accent hue.

2. Vary the Scale

Tiny ditsy florals + large-scale graphics = instant depth. Playing with contrast keeps your space (or outfit) from feeling too one-note.

Think of it like a good outfit: balance a bold coat with a delicate print underneath.

3. Define Your Neutral

Not everything needs to scream for attention. A neutral can be a tone-on-tone stripe, a classic dot, or even a leopard print—it’s all in how you pair it.

Tip: Texture can act like a neutral too—hello, linen, velvet, and boucle.

4. Add an Element of Surprise

This is where the personality kicks in. Throw in a metallic. Add a woven basket. Layer in something dimensional or unexpected.

Surprise creates energy—and energy is stylish.

5. Always Live Your Style

Your style doesn’t have to be loud, but it should feel like you. Whether you’re styling your entryway or picking out earrings, the same principle applies: mix what you love, not just what matches.

Want More?

If you love a good visual, you can grab my free downloadable Pattern Mixing Guide—it’s filled with tips, visuals, and examples you can reference anytime.

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